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posted by playingmonalisa.
naka-relate. hehe
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REALIZATION
sometimes in our relentless effort to find the person we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who loves us. We miss out on so many beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to b enslaved by our own selfish concerns.. Go for the man of words for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you love but the man who loves you more..
The best lovers are those capable of loving from a distance enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within your being.
To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving.. IT only means that you have allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to care back.
Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is also setting yourself free from all bitterness, hatred and anger that you keep in your heart. Do not let bitterness scare away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it.. You may find peace in loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return.
But be careful, this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories on the past but real peace and happiness come only with acceptance of what reality is today. There comes a time on our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon become apart of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves., You do not have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or feeling sorry for yourself.
Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving. Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen no only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember, that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. If you lost love that doesn't mean that you failed. Cry if you have to, but make sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left you. Let for of yesterday and love will din its way back to you. and when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.
There are two ways to live your life.. One is as though, nothing is a miracle..
The other is as though, everything is a miracle...
posted by playingmonalisa.
naka-relate. hehe
___________________
REALIZATION
sometimes in our relentless effort to find the person we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who loves us. We miss out on so many beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to b enslaved by our own selfish concerns.. Go for the man of words for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you love but the man who loves you more..
The best lovers are those capable of loving from a distance enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within your being.
To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving.. IT only means that you have allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to care back.
Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is also setting yourself free from all bitterness, hatred and anger that you keep in your heart. Do not let bitterness scare away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it.. You may find peace in loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return.
But be careful, this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories on the past but real peace and happiness come only with acceptance of what reality is today. There comes a time on our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon become apart of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves., You do not have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or feeling sorry for yourself.
Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving. Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen no only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember, that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. If you lost love that doesn't mean that you failed. Cry if you have to, but make sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left you. Let for of yesterday and love will din its way back to you. and when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.
There are two ways to live your life.. One is as though, nothing is a miracle..
The other is as though, everything is a miracle...
